My Dear Friend

One of my friends is going through a personal crisis. This article is dedicated to him.

Hello my friend. When we met for the first time, you introduced yourself with a flashing smile and welcomed me. I immediately felt a true human being residing within you.

During our interaction over the period of last few months, I felt that whatever I have sensed about you, you are exactly like that and to some extent, I am also like you.

Being your friend, I felt that there is a kind of hesitance or confusion inside you. I wanted to talk about that freely, so that you can think about it and work upon.

Last week, when you explained about your problems, the situation you going through over last 8 years and the way you have changed over this period of time, I felt shocked. I really felt sorry for you. At such young age, you are going through this phase and tackling this situation quite gracefully.

Taking such blows at such a young age, may have disappointed you. You may not have got the love and affection from your dear ones. But dear, this doesn’t mean that you are of no importance to anyone. Of course, your dear ones are with you, and they care about you. They are just not able to express it to you, because of some circumstances.

I think, you need to take charge of your family. Being, understanding and wise in nature, you can easily do it. Yes you CAN. Just think positive under any situation. Look at the brighter side of your life. If you can change that outlook to some extent, everything will look beautiful to you. Everything will look simpler. May be the time will teach you all these lessons. All you need to do is just stand firmly.

Do not allow negative thoughts taking charge of your life. Replace each bad though with the positive one. Please don’t try to escape from this situation. Don’t even think about that. That is the act of cowards. Live your life to the fullest. It’s not about the cards thrown at you; it’s about how well you play your hands around it.

I know, it’s easy to say and suggest all these things from a distance. But I think, being positive is the only one and the best way to come out of this crisis. You can learn a few techniques, read about great personalities, ask for suggestions from the people you trust and find a mentor. And above all, there is a hand of god on your back. This hand will guide you along your journey. Just believe in him and he will do the rest.

Every problem comes with some opportunity. There is always a flip side to every problem. And who knows, a brighter future may be waiting for you. Surely, there will be. This is just a delicate phase in your life and these days will pass over and better days will come.

Dear, you are a true human being and are special to this world. The whole world takes care of you. Don’t feel lonely. Just try to be more expressive. Remove all of your anger and frustration and try to open it in front of me or anyone you trust. This will make you relax.

Another kind suggestion, please don’t expect too much from others, this may sometimes disappoint you. Do not allow small arguments to spoil the great relationships.

I am a bit harsh and practical to say these things, but you can definitely think about this. And remember one thing, I am always with you.

Never.. Never.. Never.. Never.. GIVE UP. Realize the warrior within you.